Men and Women Cheat On Each On Other For Entirely Different Reason
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Posted:Sep 30, 2006 4:52 am
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From The Swazi Observer, Swaziland, Saturday, September 30, 2006
Men and Women Cheat On Each On Other For Entirely Different Reason
Men and women cheat for different reasons, says infidelity expert Ruth Houston, who was recently quoted in a New York Times article on female infidelity.
Men and women tend to cheat on their spouses for different reasons, says infidelity expert Ruth Houston, who was recently quoted in a New York Times article on female infidelity.
The New York Times article, 'High Infidelity' which explored the rising trend in female infidelity, included comments from a number of cheating wives as well as interviews with marriage counselors, infidelity experts, private investigators, divorce lawyers and other professionals in the field.
‘The No.1, 2 and 3 reasons for men relate to sex,’ Ms. Houston said. ‘A woman cheats for the most part as a last resort. She has tried everything, her complaints have fallen on deaf ears and she feels she has no other alternative.’
Ms Houston, whose ongoing infidelity research spans 10 years and encompasses both male and female infidelity, says Basically men cheat primarily for sexual reasons, while women cheat primarily for emotional reasons.
Dating
Being a participant in the dating game is very similar to being a repairman.
He has a job to do. He has to fix things. In order to do that, he must know how to go about it. But knowing how is not enough. He must have the “tools to do the job.”
In the dating game, you cannot attract women if you do not have the tools to do the job. All of the knowledge in the world about women will not result in success, unless you can actually apply it properly.
Attracting women includes radiating confidence, charm, ambition, challenge, mystery. The list goes on. All of these qualities can be summed up as charisma.
Charisma is simply defined as “a personal attractiveness that makes one like you and be inspired by you.” The stronger your charismatic aura, the stronger and more frequent you will attract women, and people in general.
Developing this aura takes practice and discipline, a constant process of self-improvement that involves working on each separate component:
Manner - radiating a type of gracefulness and finesse with a bearing that says you are an important person that demands respect.
Presence - looking good, learning how to confidently deal with the space around (the opposite of appearing goofy).
Empathy - treating people, ALL people you come into contact with, special by learning to listen to them, to their dreams, hopes, fears, and appealing to them, and inspiring hope and desire in them.
Mystery - One of the most important components. If you cannot fulfill the other parts of charisma, mystery will have no effect. Mystery is created when you keep your intentions to yourself, never showing all the cards in your hand, being unpredictable.
When your confident manner, commanding presence, and empathetic attitude make you stand out, people’s imaginations begin to rock and they wonder “What is it about him that makes him so different. Why does HE, out of everyone else, look so confident?”
This wondering causes people to want to be around you more, because somehow you “connect” with them and have their respect, and radiate that confident aura.
They cannot explain it, but they grow attracted to you and your presence is heightened because those who never met you will want to, once they hear from others how great you are.
See the pattern and how it all connects? Develop charisma and get the ultimate tools for the job!
NB: Some information sourced on the internet
© 2006 The Swazi Observer. All Rights Reserved.
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Blogs .vs. Magazine
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Posted:Sep 25, 2006 4:40 pm
Last Updated:Mar 1, 2008 5:07 am
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What's the difference between magazine and blogs? Seems people ask any questions on blogs when it should be on magazine. What ya think?
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