Ahem...do you agree? the world is built on compromise and negotiation and life is a series of small humiliations. this thinking is in the service of telling you that it's only our ingrained puritanism that brings some to judge formalized arrangements...whether in your marriage or determined effort to size one another up on this site. some people are silly to think of sex as just something that happens naturally when two people spend time together...ha! look at me, i'm going to be used for my body (hehe) so i might as well suss out the boundaries...will we be friends even if a private friendship? maybe LTR? or just a one time joy machine. what do you think?
....you should go and love yourself.....Justin B. song is an interesting song. Is it dark that we internalize the stereotype of what defines us as beautiful people? Especially for women, have we taken it too far where there are devil body challenges. These challenges masked as 'fitness tests' that encourage woman to meet abnormal standards that will change you into beautiful sirens to entrap mortal men.
Maybe the truth is that these are unhealthy standards of attractiveness and these standards should be broken not met. Too skinny? I say you look good and nobody is perfect so just ignore as there are no correct values. We are not a collection of people who look back one day and are proud of the rise in young people with bulimia and anorexia.