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Married and having an affair
Married and having an affair |
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1/16/2019 8:04 pm |
My thinking is that it might be safer to see another married person due to each party having something at stake.
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absolutely....you both are in the same position with much to lose and much to risk.
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You're right, from the married persons perspective, having an affair with another married person is less risky than having the affair with a single person. But.... from the single persons perspective, having an affair with the married individual is also less risky, than having the affair with another single person.
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1/16/2019 8:28 pm |
Wish I knew the answer to this.
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Good points
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I agree. Always have an affair with married person.
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Depends on the danger you are trying to avoid. If you're trying to avoid your wife finding out, a married woman is best. If you're trying to avoid being shot by a jealous husband then single women would be best. If you're trying to avoid a committed relationship developing, a married woman with a rich husband is best. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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I chose married because less chance of catching something
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Single or married doesn't seem to matter it just depends on who they feel can keep a secret and not spread gossip
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1/16/2019 9:04 pm |
Married less likely to talk to other people
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1/16/2019 9:38 pm |
absolutely....you both are in the same position with much to lose and much to risk.
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1/16/2019 9:40 pm |
You're right, from the married persons perspective, having an affair with another married person is less risky than having the affair with a single person. But.... from the single persons perspective, having an affair with the married individual is also less risky, than having the affair with another single person.
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1/16/2019 9:42 pm |
Wish I knew the answer to this.
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1/16/2019 9:45 pm |
Single or married doesn't seem to matter it just depends on who they feel can keep a secret and not spread gossip
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1/16/2019 9:47 pm |
I chose married because less chance of catching something
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1/16/2019 9:49 pm |
Depends on the danger you are trying to avoid. If you're trying to avoid your wife finding out, a married woman is best. If you're trying to avoid being shot by a jealous husband then single women would be best. If you're trying to avoid a committed relationship developing, a married woman with a rich husband is best.
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I didn't vote because I think the risk is 50/50. Not all single women are looking for love or marriage. If they're career professionals discretion is important to them too. With a married woman, not feeling satisfied with what she has now, is as likely to develop feelings or dish with one of her girlfriends. The risk of getting caught increases if the spouses don't know, because now 2 people are making excuses, covering up, increasing potential to be caught.
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Getting married is a waste of time . How many remain faithful? Look at all the married people on the site .
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1/17/2019 3:35 am |
That’s a very good point. No risk if a married person just avoids having the affair all together.
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1/17/2019 3:41 am |
Getting married is a waste of time . How many remain faithful? Look at all the married people on the site . But there are some very good marriages out there. Thanks.
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1/17/2019 3:44 am |
I didn't vote because I think the risk is 50/50. Not all single women are looking for love or marriage. If they're career professionals discretion is important to them too. With a married woman, not feeling satisfied with what she has now, is as likely to develop feelings or dish with one of her girlfriends. The risk of getting caught increases if the spouses don't know, because now 2 people are making excuses, covering up, increasing potential to be caught.
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1/17/2019 6:29 am |
Getting married is a waste of time . How many remain faithful? Look at all the married people on the site .
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1/17/2019 7:40 am |
The first sensible comment and the only sensible comment on this blog ..people waste so much time with their lives in getting married and a lot do it knowing they will often cheat..People that cheat with another cheaters , Whats to say the cheaters aren't screwing a lot of people? There is no guarantee you wont end up with stds its no safer than singles screwing whatever comes their way...
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1/17/2019 11:26 am |
It would make the most sense to deal with someone who has just as much to lose as you do. If you decide to deal with another married person, hopefully the person is as discreet as they say they are.
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I prefer married
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its a risk both ways.. a married person might be trying to get back or pay back with their partner.. so they might use the affair as a payback. also the married person might decide they want you now . in saying that.. a single person has more time on their hands..
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1/17/2019 1:49 pm |
Married people are more discreet
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1/17/2019 5:44 pm |
It would make the most sense to deal with someone who has just as much to lose as you do. If you decide to deal with another married person, hopefully the person is as discreet as they say they are.
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1/17/2019 7:20 pm |
A very pointed opinion. A welcomed perspective which is one way to look at the overall situation of married/married, married/ single, single / single , couple/ married , couple/couple. So is it okay if s person is in an open marriage? Or if both commited partners want to introduce another to their fun?
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1/17/2019 10:15 pm |
I have to say married... you are both in the same boat
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Married is probably safer in that you both have commitments to other people and less of a chance of getting attached to another.
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1/18/2019 3:20 am |
I have to say married... you are both in the same boat
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1/18/2019 3:23 am |
Married is probably safer in that you both have commitments to other people and less of a chance of getting attached to another.
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1/18/2019 4:03 am |
I accidentally deleted a post. Working on my phone and my thicker fingers hit the wrong part of the screen. Sorry about that.
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Having an affair with a married person may seem that the chances of being caught are better, but when you do, and you will get caught, you hurt more people, spouses, children, etc. I had an affair. It was the worst thing I have ever done. My advice is do not have one!
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1/18/2019 5:50 am |
Having an affair with a married person may seem that the chances of being caught are better, but when you do, and you will get caught, you hurt more people, spouses, children, etc. I had an affair. It was the worst thing I have ever done. My advice is do not have one!
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1/18/2019 5:59 am |
Having an affair with a married person may seem that the chances of being caught are better, but when you do, and you will get caught, you hurt more people, spouses, children, etc. I had an affair. It was the worst thing I have ever done. My advice is do not have one!
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1/18/2019 10:20 am |
You are correct. I did not think about all of the possibilities. Appreciate your comment and perspective.
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1/18/2019 3:43 pm |
Married - easter o maintain discreteness.
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1/19/2019 9:30 am |
if you are intending to stay married, single is safer because the partner of the married person may expose the affair.
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1/19/2019 10:57 am |
if you are intending to stay married, single is safer because the partner of the married person may expose the affair.
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A very pointed opinion. A welcomed perspective which is one way to look at the overall situation of married/married, married/ single, single / single , couple/ married , couple/couple. So is it okay if s person is in an open marriage? Or if both commited partners want to introduce another to their fun? "Cheating" is usually more of a matter of personal sanity, and ALL to often [those who cheat on their marriages] people can't afford to get divorced. Otherwise, sure, if you can afford to walk away from a marriage, do so immediately, then go bag some tail. The nonsense about "Vows" being thrown back at you because you cheat, is ridiculous and hysterical. Humans are NOT naturally monogamous. If someone better comes along... someone better is going to get laid. Those who say they wouldn't cheat... usually couldn't if their life depended on it. Step 1: Cheating is triggered when there's a reason, rational or irrational. Step 2: An opportunity is required. People usually get tripped up with step 2 , because they can't attract anyone . When that happens, their marriage turns violent. The lesson? ...Never get married if you can't attract others.
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1/19/2019 7:25 pm |
We share the same type of life.
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1/19/2019 7:54 pm |
It's always cool to cheat, and get away with cheating. "Cheating" is usually more of a matter of personal sanity, and ALL to often [those who cheat on their marriages] people can't afford to get divorced. Otherwise, sure, if you can afford to walk away from a marriage, do so immediately, then go bag some tail. The nonsense about "Vows" being thrown back at you because you cheat, is ridiculous and hysterical. Humans are NOT naturally monogamous. If someone better comes along... someone better is going to get laid. Those who say they wouldn't cheat... usually couldn't if their life depended on it. Step 1: Cheating is triggered when there's a reason, rational or irrational. Step 2: An opportunity is required. People usually get tripped up with step 2 , because they can't attract anyone . When that happens, their marriage turns violent. The lesson? ...Never get married if you can't attract others.
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I prefer having sex with a couple so much less risk and twice the fun . Next preference ... married. Last choice .... single .... too much risk of getting attached.
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1/22/2019 6:45 pm |
The marriage might be already lost. It happens.
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1/22/2019 6:47 pm |
I prefer having sex with a couple so much less risk and twice the fun . Next preference ... married. Last choice .... single .... too much risk of getting attached.
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Getting married is a waste of time . How many remain faithful? Look at all the married people on the site .
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1/22/2019 10:33 pm |
Yhoughts to ponder
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1/23/2019 7:55 am |
Both need to be married. Both have same to lose
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As a masseur, I'm one of the single people guys come to see. Some think it is safer to play with someone in their own situation. The ones I get don't see getting a massage with a happy ending as cheating per se, and because it is a business transaction, no chance at it turning into anything more...unless they take it in that direction.
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Most responses are from one side. Need other side as well
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1/27/2019 7:40 pm |
Most responses are from one side. Need other side as well
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1/27/2019 7:43 pm |
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Married people have more to lose and singles tend to become clingy and start asking "when are you going to leave your spouse for me"------Singles not worth the risk and hassle.
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2/2/2019 2:24 pm |
Married people have more to lose and singles tend to become clingy and start asking "when are you going to leave your spouse for me"------Singles not worth the risk and hassle.
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2/10/2019 12:53 pm |
prob married...
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Married as you know, you both need to be a secret
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